Tu saheli ho gai!!

Pata Nahi Chala Kab dosti itni gehri ho gai,
Pata hi Nahi Chala tu Kab Maa se saheli ho gai…

Mere dard aur choton ko sehlate-sehlate, ehasaason ko baatne lagi,
Meri aankho ko padhte-padhte mere dil mein bhi jhakne lagi..

Daat-ti nahi hain ab tu, bas bahas hoti hain teri-meri,
Mera nazariya samajhne ki ye bhi ek koshish hoti hain teri…

Bachchon ki tarah har cheej aajkal puchh kar karti hain,
Mujhe zindagi mein aagey badhane ki koshish me, jaane kitne kirdaar badalti hain….

Pehle mere liye shopping hoti thi, ab mere saath hoti hain,
“Bill meri beti bharegi” papa ko aisa kehte-kehte, mere hi liye chaar extra cheeje aur kharid leti hain…

Gossip aaj kal tu bhi karti hain, mere non-veg jokes par thahake lagakar hasti hain,
Ye baat aur hain ki mere chhote kapdo par aaj bhi teri baaton ki barsaat hoti hain…

Facebook, Whatsapp, Skype meri nayee virtual duniya ki jaane kitni cheeje jaanti hain,
Riti-riwaaz, pooja-upwas naani ki sab sikh aaj tak maanti hain…

Do pidhiyo ka safar tay kar liya tune itni door aane main,
Ek beti se maa, aur maa se dost ban jaane main….

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Let’s find love digitally

If you think about love, you cannot stop thinking about movies. Movies where things fall on place beautifully and two people find each other to love each other for forever. Every film from Bollywood depicts how important love is to survive. Love makes life beautiful, every moment memorable and moreover it gives meaning to our life. We learn to live for other, we learn to sacrifice, and we learn to make someone smile. Why I am talking too much about love? Well not my fault, its Valentine month and love is in the air.
My whatsapp inbox and Facebook wall is filled with love messages and being hopeless romantic it is affecting me badly. On one hand these lovey-dovey messages and status were making me smile and on other hand one status took my smile away. It was written on my friend’s FB wall “One more valentine alone…no hopes for date on this valentine too ”. How it would have felt when you want someone to love you and there is no one only because you are in a wheelchair. Year after year goes on and you keep waiting for that someone special who would come and everything become loveable and everyday become Valentine.
It is awful fact that in India disabled people still find it difficult to find their love. The problem is not only mentality but also inaccessible infrastructure that confined many disabled people to their house. It is difficult for wheelchair users to get social, develop new relationships and eventually find their life partners. However, things are changing slowly and till things really get well we can rely on digitization. Of course, dating site is not a new idea, but websites which are specially designed for disabled people is boon for those who want to love and get loved.
So what are you waiting for? Explore these top five sites and find your perfect match:

Inclov
Inclov is more about match-making app then a dating site. Launched in 2016, the clear goal of inclov app is to offer accessible platform to every differently-able person. It can be easily used by visual impaired people. In- app chat feature, allow people to interact without exchanging numbers or emails that ensures safety of users. It is used by both disabled and able bodies, which is sign that India is changing.

Glimmer
Glimmer is one more reliable app that brings disabled and able-body together on the same platform for friendship and dating. One of the best features that glimmer provides is – to be honest. While signing up user can disclose his or her disability that is visible on his or her profile.
Although the app is not only for differently-able and can be used by anybody and everybody.

Loveability
Loveability is one of the finest apps that would solve your dating problem. Its best feature is that it focuses more on criterias like medical condition, medication, level of independence, etc., which really are important things for any differently-able person.

Dating4disabled.com
This is the site where you will find people from almost every country and they share interest not only through chats but also through blogs and forums. The site is really concerned about users’ safety and continuously works to enhances it.

Myspecialmatch.com
Myspecialmatch is a match making site where you can look for serious and long-term relationships. It gives high priority to users’ privacy and security.
Instead of waiting for him or her let’s explore this virtual world and see where your fate takes you. I don’t know if all of you can meet your special one here, but I know one thing that doing is much better option than waiting.

Shukriya Maa!

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Soch rahi thi tuze alfazo me bayan Karu

Tu hain kya mere liye

Ye batakar tera shukriya ada Karu….

 

Par khayal aaya fir…..

 

Mere khoon ka to rang hi tu he,

Tere sharir ka bas ang hu me

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Is duniya me aai main,  tuze beinteha  dard dekar,

Fir bhi mere har jakhm ka marham tu hi he,

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Me tarashti rahi khwab apne, aur

Bas meri khushi se apni jindagi sawari he tune

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Shahar me tanha basar karke jindagi,

Tuze hauslo ke fatiye padhati rahi….

Halanki, khabar mujhe bhi he ke tu parwadigar ko bhi na bakshe….

Jab baat meri hifajat par aaye

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Char kitabe padhkar aaj sikhati hu tuze talim-e-juban

Bhool jaati hu aksar muze to lafz hi tune sikhsye

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Me roj karti hu sajda khuda se apni khushiyo ke liye,

Or meri jide-jarurate puri karna hi Teri ibadat ban gai

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Jamane ke taur-rarike tuze sikhati firti hu,

Yaad nahi rehta muze nivala banana bhi tune hi bataya tha

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

Tu kaynat si shaksiyat

Me jarra bhi nahi

Tu sabr-e-samandar

Or me katra bhi nahi

Fir bata lafzo me bayan tuze kese Karu?

 

lafz nahi koi bas…..ek baat keh sakti hu

Shukriya muze Janam dene ke liye, meri maa hone ke liye…..

Happy Guru Purnima

Dear Keyrun Bhaiya,

Keyrun

Aap nahi hote toh kon batata jindagi ki aisi bhi shakal hoti he

Bina jadoo kiye sirf shabdon se bhi jadoogari hoti hain…

 

Kese pata chalta bina kuchh bole, itna kuchh kaha jaa sakta hain

Sahi frequency lage to shabdo ka pura universe bhi pen ki nib par aa sakta hain

 

Kon samjhata ek aisa bhi profession hota he

jisme kaam nahi hota or sirf khud se hi competition hota he 

 

kon batata ek raasta without destination bhi hota he

jispe chalne ka apna hi satisfaction hota he

 

Kon sikhata ki ek  duniya insaan bhi bana sakta hain

Jo hain hi nahi aise characters jameen par laa sakta  hain

 

Meri khopdi ki jhopdi me khalbali hain ye aap ke bina kon jaan pata…

Meelo door se bhi mujhe kuchh naya sikhane ka jimma kon uthata??

Thank you for being there and  teaching me. Thank you for sparing time and reading my good and bad works. Thank you for all the praising and scoldings. With every passing year my belief is getting stronger in my promise that I will make you proud one day 🙂

Happy Guru Purnima,

From your,

Idiot child 🙂

Sukhe patte si ud chali,

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Sukhe patte si ud chali,

Dekh me tere sang kitni door beh chali..

 

Gir darakht se apna vajud bhoola ke

Bina pankh me udne ko bekarar tere sang bas behti chali..

Kabhi dhoop chali kabhi chhao chali

Apni parchhi ko bhi kar darkinar chali dekh tere sang bas cahlti chali

 

Do kadam do meel chali

Tere haatho pe sawar kabhi jamin par rengti me baar baar chali

Tere sang yaado me chali, tuti tuti raaton me chali

Tere abhiman pe apna swabhiman bhi waar me chali..teri deewangi me bas chalti chali..

 

Kabhi shunya, kabhi ehsaaso se me bhari

Tere liye thami, mehfil me teri baatein chali tab me chali

Jamane ka dastoor bhoola, rivayato ki doli kar paar me chali

Jaha tu chala bas me chali…tere kadmo ke nisha par chalti chali…

 

Sukhe patte si beh me chali

Bina kisi rishte adhikar me chali

Bas man ki dor thaam me chali

Tuze apne me samete chalti me chali bas chalti me chali

E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

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E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

Me tuze samjhu tu muze jaan le

E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

 

Yu to mere kisso me kabse tha tu

Par tera hissa ab se me bhi hu ye baat maanle

Teri raftaar se chalna sikha de

Dhime-dhime, maddham-maddham

E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

 

Mere apno ko chhod ke aayi hu

Sapne kai tod ke aayi hu

In palko pe naye khwab saja de

Anjaan in choraho pe kisi apne se mila de

Dheere dheere, kadam dar kadam

E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

 

Me meelon door bas yuhi nikal aayi

Kuchh keemti sa apna wahi chhod aayee

Tere falak pe mere shahar ka chaand dikha de

Awara un hawaon ka swad chakha de

Hole hole, sirhan sirhan

 

E naye shahar chal haath thaam le

Me tuze sanjhu tu bhi thoda muze jaanle

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Mere bachchon muze maaf karna me is baar nahi aa paunga

Kisi or ko hain meri jarurat tumse jyada me waha jaunga

 

Takiye ke niche rakhi wishes is baar puri na ho payengi

saal bhar ki baatein is baar adhuri reh jayengi

 

me agle saal jarur aaunga ye wada karta hu

tumhare rehne layak ek khubsurat duniya basaunga ye koshish karta hu

 

is baar meri jholi me tumhare sapne aur khilone nahi ye bilkul khali hain

par na jaane kyo iska bojh tumhare khilono se kai jyada bhari hain

 

thodi insaniyat, thodi masoomiyat hain isme…

kuchh dil, kuchh yaadein, kuchh sharam he isme..

 

sabse pehle un aatankiyon ke ghar jaunga

ek jaan ki keemat shayad unhe samjha paunga

 

jaunga jihadiyo ke ghar…

thodi si masoomiyat baksh aaunga,

shayad unhe jihad ka sahi matlab bata paunga

 

jo jhpakti nahi khoon ka rang dekh kar

un aankho ko thodi sharam de aaunga

 

kuchh dil he un apno ke liye, jinhone apne khoye

ho saka to unke chehro par thodi muskan bikher aaunga

 

ho sake to muze maaf karna mere bachchon… me kal nahi aa paunga

tumhare rehne layak ek duniya basa saku…bas itni si koshish karne jaunga….

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